• Why I talk to teenagers & The p*do panic.

    It’s strange to me that we treat our own young like a separate class of people. I know kids haven’t collected as much information yet, but isn’t that exactly why we should all be talking to them, answering questions, and not just telling them what to do? We socially isolate our own youth, and this… Continue reading

  • Correcting something & The polarized view of abuse.

    Well, I got banned for being a MAP on twitter. I expected that to happen sooner honestly, but anyway, that’s why I’m correcting this here. I was a little bit stupid there one time. Yes, just one, I stand by the rest. At least my own understanding of the rest, I don’t know how others… Continue reading

  • The importance of sex-positive / kink-positive feminism

    From my time stalking some of pro-rape “misogyny is the natural way, women are made to please men and should be enslaved” corners of the internet I’ve learned a lot. It’s the intersection of abuse and your own sexuality, insecurity, the fear of lack of control, and the fear of standing on your own. The… Continue reading